Your information stays yours.

Before we begin: nothing you write is shared unless you say so. Every single answer has three choices.

• SharedYour partner can see it, and it can shape their suggestions.
• PrivateOnly you. It never reaches anyone else.
• Share when I'm readyPrivate for now. You can open it up later.

You can change any of these later in Settings, and the change takes effect right away — anything you make private disappears from wherever it was showing.